!s already 2219pm... many works waiting for me to finish it!! washing clothes, printing notes, showering and.... but the friendship problem came to my mind!! WHY?? because i had found out a group of friends had separated into few 'gangs'.. what had cause all this happened?? the answer is TRUST and MISTRUST in between friends!! many question comes to me:
why we can't stay polite with each others?
why we must criticize each others when we don't like sumone else?
why we must blame each others when things had happened?
why we must gossip bout friend's weakness or behavior behind each others?
why we could not speak face to face to settle down all those problem?
why a group of best friends will become enemy in the end?
is it all tis why can be soluted??
maybe yes and maybe forever not!!
but what i gonna mean that is cherish and appreciate your friends around you without blaming or criticizing with an important point-SINCERE
We should responsible on what we had said and done all this while but not escape all this facts and responsibility!! i feel very proud of myself cause i spoke out my voice with two of my best friends,Jason and Zeta, at least i had settle down all those conflict and distrustful between us.. It's not easy to form and maintain a group of best friends in this society today caused of selfishness personality!! but i managed to keep a close distance with Jason for the past 13yrs! it is too bad for people always care about their own benefits and ignore others feeling as well instead of being sincere and polite to the friends around..
Besides, i confess i had make many mistakes and cause of my immature relation and caused those unwanted problem appeared! i'm the one should apologize for all of this!! i'm sincerely apologize for it SORRYYYYYY... god will punish me one day!!
*loudly*THANK YOU Julie and Shan!! thx for supporting me for all tis while whenever i'm down and u two had give me your trust.. i love u guys =p
*F-R-I-E-N-D-S hope u all will realise the importance of friendship value*
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all of us are having our own weaknesses..a different people have different weaknesses..even me myself also got my own weaknesses..n every people will crticize or blaming or even gossip for each other..even u n me also will critize or blaming other people when we are "bu shuang" rite??..but in our heart we know we are still fren..As a fren they would accept everything that their best fren critize on them..because for me i believe that from my fren critize, i can knew the things that i had done wrong..but different people had different perception in those critizing..may be they will feel that they all hurting each others..there are a lot of ways to look on those critizing..just hope we can learn to look it from different ways..i am stil trying to look it from different ways also..
every people will done some wrong things that they never knew bout it..even for me, i may be had done some wrong things that hurt my fren..n i still dunno bout it..i can sincerely appologize here because may be u all might read this..~sorry for my ignorant n all the things that i had been done against u all~
at last last, i hope or group friendship wont become enemy n all the problem can be soluted.
* facing n soving for a problem is part for our life..we are trying to solving those problem in a better ways that wont hurt each others..after solvings for the problems, we knew that we had grow to be more mature..*
Thanks for your advice.. Hope the group friendship will last forever but not end up with conflict and fight!!
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